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Are you the Alex or Alexandra that is dealing with a know it all old woman?

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Every month I do a number of random Tarot card readings for people that have common names. The idea behind the readings is to tap into the subconscious in order to find the problem and advice for this specific person named. If your name matches the reading and you can identify with the problem statement, then this reading is most likely for you. If it is, please comment below letting everyone know. Else, I would greatly appreciate your help getting this information to the correct person.

Problem Statement

The problem statement seems to be based around an older woman that has experienced the world and thinks she knows it all. She is highly organized, an excellent judge and highly independent. Yet, this person may be putting you on edge. You may find yourself being defensive around her or find yourself hesitant to even open up to her when she’s around. You may feel that you are being expected to uphold someone else’s standards.

Reading

Summary

The cards have suggested that your mind is on overload and any decision that you make may be illogical. You may be feeling that your thoughts are not your own or that there are two decisions to make – hers or yours. Being in the mind position, the 2 of Swords reversed advises you to stop blinding yourself. See the situation for what it is and stand your ground. There is her influence and your free will. Before any progress can be made, you’ll need to face the situation.

The 4 of Wands in the body position shows that there is a hint of being ready, but there is a breakdown in communication or that nothing comes easy. You’re going to need to hold your ground and find new ways to communicate what you need to do in order to address the judgment of the know-it-all.

Spiritually, it’s all about acceptance and forgiveness. In order to really make forward progress, you’ll have to forgive this older woman for she doesn’t have the emotional capacity to engage in situations that are illogical or feelings based. Her relationships would be logical, yours may not, thus you will have a unique perspective that she will come to understand in time.

Cards and Questions

Q1- The problem statement.

Queen of Swords

Video Interpretation: Queen of Swords
Key Words: Strength, independence, courage in adversity, quick thinker, organized, perceptive, self-reliance, a divorcee or widow, excellent judge, devoid of emotion, intellectual, grounded in reality, facts based.
Key Feelings: The feeling is that of the old widow that has experienced the world that tells you what is on her mind.
Description: This card represents the mature, witty old widow that has everything that she needs and earned it. The energy usually comes as another person that enters your life that is there to help. She is independent, organized, perceptive and self-reliant. The energy shows that where she is void of emotion, she makes up for in intellect. She is firmly grounded in reality and, most likely, would make an excellent judge. She rules based on facts and has the courage to stand up to adversity. She has a protective demeanor and expects everyone to follow the law.
Zodiac: Aquarius
Words: Individualistic, assertive, independent, humanitarian, inventive, original, eccentric, intellectual, idealistic, cool, friendly.
Description: The traits of this energy tend to bring up all the common attributes of the Aquarius archetype. What happened in the past can stay there for this is a forward-looking and growth-oriented energy. There is the strive to balance both equality and individual freedom in a way that follows well proven paths but in ways that are free of personal and social conditioning. They tend to be curious, observant, well-liked, clever, witty while at the same time being aloof or standoffish. They are fixed in their opinions, but open to a change in theory for they value progress in a frank, no nonsense type of way. There is a strong need for personal freedom and space and they defend it with their intellectual poise and savvy. They like you to think that they know it all and they take the time to point it out. They are humanitarian and enjoy being involved in anything that gives them a sense of advancing human kind.
Animal: Butterfly
Key Words: Transformation.
Description: The Butterfly brings the ability to know the mind and how to change it. It brings having an acute understanding of a situation and knowing exactly how to deal with it. It is seeing the beginnings stages of situations and understanding how to apply your behavior to that situation. The mind is never ending and this energy suggests that you instinctively know how to tap into the lightest of thoughts. When you pay attention to the lightest whisper of thoughts, the answers will be obvious. This energy is that super quite voice in your head that knows what to say when. Butterfly energy comes at transition points. Pay close attention to the points where decisions are made about activity in your life. You are encouraged to listen in order to find your next move.
Suit: Swords
Words: Mind, communication, logic, reason.
Description: Swords are about the activities of the mind; thought, communication, logic, reason all fall in this category. The reality is that what happens in the mind is just as real as what happens in the physical plane so things might get confusing for people if they don’t look at all the details. It is the element of consciousness that is controlled and manipulated by the ego that helps direct how we perceive our experiences. It is the interpretation of the statistics. It is the categorizing what we experience.
Element: Air
Words: Intelligence, power, spirit.
Description: Air is considered the universal power or pure substance. It is the intelligence and the soul that keeps order making the universe predictable. It carries the energy of spirit and fills the soul with ideas to aspire too. It is teaching and learning, communicative and social. It is the bearer of life and is compared to blood. It is considered hot and wet. It is associated with spring.

Q2- Details about the problem.

9 of Wands (↓)

Video Interpretation: 9 of Wands (↓)
Key Words: On edge, defensive, hesitant, paranoia, at limit.
Key Feelings: The feeling in your stomach when you stand on the edge of a cliff and look down.
Description: Reversed, you may feel on edge, pushed to your limits, or paralyzed by your situation. It may feel that you just can’t take another step or that the foundation will collapse out from underneath you. You may feel that you will surely die if you take one more step. This energy is laced with paranoia and a severe life-threatening sense of self-defense.
Animal: Goat
Key Words: Stability.
Description: When the goat is upside down, it hints that we may feel like we have fallen from some heavenly height or critically lost our balance. We now question the choices that we've made regarding our path and particularly each step in the process. It may be that the path seems insurmountable. This card encourages us to connect with our curious instincts and gently nudge the situation intellectually in order to unlock the solution.
Suit: Wands
Words: Possessive, Forceful, Energy Suck.
Description: The inverted suit of wands is all about missing that drive that moves you to experience life. It manifests as a lack of desire, passion and creativity. It is the inability to transform anything. It is that zombie like repetitive approach to daily activity that shows no initiative. This energy should be experienced or observed through the performing arts, but it is missing leaving the event cold or uninteresting. It may be hard to start new projects or find the energy to travel. There may be the lack of enthusiasm or a outright loss of will-power.
Number: 9
Words: Arrogance, mental instability, fickle.
Description: When reversed, the generous, compassionate energy of the nine turns arrogant, egocentric and mentally unstable. Expect self-pitying behavior, excessive sentimental outbursts and emotional discontent. Nothing is ever good enough. Perfectly good solutions and activities are rejected or dismissed. The person is cold, fickle and unreasonable.
Element: Fire
Words: Anger, destruction, death.
Description: Reversed, fire is considered a power of destruction or that which transforms the situation into something that is unrecognized and unusable. It as a metaphysical essence that is fear based or leaves a sense of awe. It is the masculine energy of suppression and revenge. It is the final straw. It is hot and dry. It is associated with summer.

Advice from cards:

Q3- Mind

2 of Swords (↓)

Video Interpretation: 2 of Swords (↓)
Key Words: Information overload, illogical decision made, can’t think straight, blindfold being ripped off, truth out in open.
Key Feelings: The feeling of having to hear your family’s opinions with regards to which suitor you should choose.
Description: Reversed, this card suggests that your blindfold will be ripped off exposing all the details of the situation and you’re going to be forced to decide even if you don’t like it. This energy will not let you hide the facts from yourself or others. You will face them. The energy may be overwhelming, not expected or not believable which can lead to an irrational or illogical decision.
Suit: Swords
Words: Ego, manipulative, statistics, invalid conclusions.
Description: Reversed, the Swords are about the darker aspects associated with the mind that lead to more inharmonious situations when dealing with the thought processes, communications and logical thinking. These activities tend to break down rather than build things up. Thought processes may loop or become more obsessive. Logic may break down or the thinking process could draw irrational conclusions. There is a strong sense of ego which may create a point of view that is more self-centered. Facts and figures may be exploited to manipulate others into believing your point of view rather than what’s the actual truth. Experiences or memories may be recalled differently than what others remember. Reality tends to be skewed to fit your imagination rather than simply being what it is.
Number: 2
Words: Oversensitivity, laziness, carelessness.
Description: In the reversed position, this energy brings oversensitivity particularly regarding the image of self and how the person is perceived. There may be the observation of laziness or the essence of spoiled behavior. There tends to be a heightened awareness of carelessness particularly towards honoring the truth. Individually, the person may feel as if they have done nothing wrong showing that there is lack of awareness to how they affect their environment.
Element: Air
Words: Intellectual control, insensitivities, miscommunication, ego.
Description: Air is considered the universal power or pure substance. It is the intelligence and the soul that keeps order making the universe predictable. It carries the energy of spirit and fills the soul with ideas to aspire too. It is teaching and learning, communicative and social. It is the bearer of life and is compared to blood. It is considered hot and wet. It is associated with spring.
In the reversed position, it brings insensitivity or unwillingness to honor emotions. It can be an angel or devil without caring for the outcome. It accentuates selfish or superficial behaviors.

Q4 – Body

4 of Wands (↓)

Video Interpretation: 4 of Wands (↓)
Key Words: Breakdown in communication, transition, nothing comes easy.
Key Feelings: That feeling where you realize that what you did is not correct, and you’ll have to do it over again.
Description: Reversed, this card suggests that you might be stuck in a position of waiting for something that never comes. Work is hard, and it feels that way. You might feel that you are in a perpetual state of transition that never leads anywhere. On the outside life is ordered, but inside you feel like you’re forever going in circles getting nowhere. You may be in a time when what you say is misinterpreted and not corrected until resources are wasted or improper results are generated. You may feel like you have lost time or things that have been done need to be undone and restarted in order to get it right.
Suit: Wands
Words: Possessive, Forceful, Energy Suck.
Description: The inverted suit of wands is all about missing that drive that moves you to experience life. It manifests as a lack of desire, passion and creativity. It is the inability to transform anything. It is that zombie like repetitive approach to daily activity that shows no initiative. This energy should be experienced or observed through the performing arts, but it is missing leaving the event cold or uninteresting. It may be hard to start new projects or find the energy to travel. There may be the lack of enthusiasm or a outright loss of will-power.
Number: 4
Words: Boring, predictable, lacking.
Description: Expect this energy to bring out the boring. Actions will be predictable, ordinary and lacking in imagination. If you’re expecting any level of emotional interaction, you will most likely be disappointed. Situations that require empathy will be met with logic, explanations and matter-of-fact science. Don’t expect much energy to be directed towards self-appearance, yet expect awkward social interactions. When the energy is too strong for boring, expect it to turn crude, vulgar and jealous.
Element: Fire
Words: Anger, destruction, death.
Description: Reversed, fire is considered a power of destruction or that which transforms the situation into something that is unrecognized and unusable. It as a metaphysical essence that is fear based or leaves a sense of awe. It is the masculine energy of suppression and revenge. It is the final straw. It is hot and dry. It is associated with summer.

Q5 – Spirit

Five of Cups (↓)

Video Interpretation: Five of Cups (↓)
Key Words: Moving on, acceptance, forgiveness, learn to take risks again, end of suffering.
Key Feelings: The feeling that the issue is finally out in the open.
Description: Reversed, this card suggests that it may be time to move forward with your situation. If you have been suffering, or consumed by great disappointment, that energy may be moving on. Here, the energy turns towards acceptance and forgiveness for yourself and others. The card brings the realization that it is ok to allow yourself to be open emotionally. This card may indicate that you have found enough strength to be willing to love again. You are cried out and ok. Be willing to make choices again.
Suit: Cups
Words: Emotionally vulnerable or defensive, closed, refusing the energy flow.
Description: In the reversed position, the suit of cups is all about the missing flow of the energy, that is perceived as emotions and feelings. It is the conscious and unconscious mis-direction, or uncontrolled aspects of that energy and all the intellectual aspects that go along with it. Every emotion that you can list is covered by this energy. This energy is directly related to touch, in both the physical and energetic levels, yet the overtones show there may be the absence of consent.
Number: 5
Words: Chaotic, irresponsible, self-indulgent.
Description: Reversed, this energy tends to bring out and amplify unstable, chaotic or irresponsible behaviors. There will be lots of splash, with no substance. There will be a tendency for the energy to create self-indulgent or careless actions and behaviors within the person. When mixed with insensitive masculine energy, there is a strong attraction for escapism through drug abuse or unhealthy sexual escapades. Pain may be seen as being pleasurable.
Element: Water
Words: Unbalanced emotion, spookily intuitive, lacking empathy.
Description: Reversed, water carries all the emotion with none of the reason. It is the storm in a teacup. It tends to dissolve situations, or grind the rocks to sand. It is unbalanced and maybe spookily intuitive. It is that feminine energy of spite. There is a lack of nurturing, sympathetic, empathetic or imaginative understanding. It is cold, wet and fluid. It is the heart of winter.

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